Thursday, April 29, 2010

What every BODY is Saying? 1: FBI 教你讀心術 ,Introduction

作者:喬.納瓦羅、馬文.卡林斯


原文作者:Joe Navarro、Marvin Karlins,

譯者:林奕伶

出版社:大是文化

出版日期:2009年03月31日
 
He says that’s his best offer. Is it?

She says she agrees. Does she?
The interview went great—or did it?
He said he’d never do it again. But he did.

Read this book and send your nonverbal intelligence soaring. Joe Navarro, a former FBI counterintelligence officer and a recognized expert on nonverbal behavior, explains how to ”speed-read” people: decode sentiments and behaviors, avoid hidden pitfalls, and look for deceptive behaviors. You’ll also learn how your body language can influence what your boss, family, friends, and strangers think of you. You will discover:

     The ancient survival instincts that drive body language

  Why the face is the least likely place to gauge a person’s true feelings

  What thumbs, feet, and eyelids reveal about moods and motives

  The most powerful behaviors that reveal our confidence and true sentiments

  Simple nonverbals that instantly establish trust

  Simple nonverbals that instantly communicate authority

Filled with examples from Navarro’s professional experience, this definitive book offers a powerful new way to navigate your world.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Thursday, April 22, 2010

金色筆記28 : 女人須要甜言...諾言。


喜歡美麗的Versage餐具茶具,
還有水晶吊燈。。。
宮廷式的迴旋梯...

然後順著回旋梯轉啊轉...
當頭暈時,就叫做戀愛...

怎像十七歲女孩ㄦ說話?!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Thursday, April 15, 2010

金色筆記 27 :當今教育的缺失。。。

君子有三戒,
少之時,血氣未定,戒之在色;
及其壯也,血氣方剛,戒之在鬥;
及其老也,血氣既衰,戒之在得。

當有人對我們不友善時,我們別跟他們鬥。
但是也別當隻小白鼠任人宰割,毫無尊嚴可言!
我們必須釋出善意,表達關愛!
但是也必須讓對方知道他的行徑,傷害到我,我受了侵犯,適度表達我極度的不悅。

倘若,這些人傷害人的意圖是刻意的,是有心的,
在法律上即是蓄意傷害,或蓄意殺人。即是殺人未遂。皆視為極嚴重的罪行。絕不可為之!

現代知識份子,尤其是所謂高知識份子,在情緒控制上如同小孩搬恣意放縱無受教養,與孔夫子的教導,完全背道而馳。即是當今教育最需要注意的事務! 不然,社會上,子弒父母,殺情人,殺夫殺妻,甚至弒子事件層出。當今教育,只注重如何運用手段利用人,賺取金錢財富,疏不知,情感,修身,修性情的重要性,遠遠大於前者。

之前,我會因為自己的親人或愛人傷害我的行為,而對人性大大的失望,每天以淚洗面,暗自哭泣。曾經賦予寄託,賦予信心的人性的美好善良的一面,都再一次又一次的被最信賴的人摧毀。甚至曾想要自殺,離開這個可怕的世界,離開這個沒有真愛的世界。


大部分時候,他們還是很愛護我的。。。但是。。。。
可悲的是,人性可否信任? 當我們必須握有保護令,才能保護自身的安全時,我們如同生活在地獄當中。佛家說: 我們不要把自己的痛苦加諸在別人身上,我們也不必要背負別人的痛苦,把自己陷在地獄當中。所以,保護自己更是重要。

如今,我了解,我何必因為別人對我的不友善,因為別人的自身問題,刻意在我身上發洩,刻意傷害我,而我反而不好好的愛護自己,而反來傷害我自己?讓別人傷害我更得逞了?  或是讓他們後悔來折磨大家的心?  這世界上,只要是凡人,任何的父母,愛人,朋友或是子女,都不會是真正的愛我們的。 相信吧!  這世界上,無私的愛,是找不到的。只有靈魂心靈高級進化的人,才有可能。。。。。! !

有靈性的人? 靈魂高度進化的人? 我們需要與這樣的人在一起,才會感覺平和,才會感到快樂! 我們自己,更要成為這樣的人!!

君子有三戒,

少之時,血氣未定,戒之在色;
及其壯也,血氣方剛,戒之在鬥;
及其老也,血氣既衰,戒之在得。
共勉之。

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Nurture Shock 1 : "教養大震撼"

"當今教育的缺失" 一文討論:
讀者:
現在的教育我也感到好無力,目前接觸的國中生是如此的難敎,家長甚至要我們配合小孩的個性,老天!我真的不敢想像未來的台灣會是如何?

菩提樹之舞: Mind Dancer said...

有本書挺好的,"教養大震撼" 可給那些家長看看! 只重視知識教育,是當今最大的問題,放縱溺愛或錯誤教育,也會讓這些學生長大後,毫無抗壓能力,自傲自以為是,無法面對困境挑戰。
若這些世代的人都是如此,也許大家在社會上競爭起來,就如同娃娃兵打娃娃兵...ha。
我認為,到時就只有特別優秀天才型的,及有毅力心智健康堅強的人物,才會出頭才能生存。

真正的M 型理論實現。

這些不是身在雲端的人,就只好成天埋首自戀,自憐!
當個所謂的"鬼娃";
也就是外表討人喜愛,諂媚媚俗,但是卻是極會欺負人的魔鬼,但是內心又是個極懦弱的娃娃。。。!!
當"鬼娃"充斥,社會事件必層出不窮。

所以,端正當今教育的風氣,是多麼的重要!

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Diet for disease prevention

Some good articles about Diet !

1 Prevention of Dementia: More Omega 3 and 6, Vitamin B12, and E. More nuts and fish...and Social Connections.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8615456.stm

2 Prevention of Heart Disease: More Pasta, High fiber cereals, wheat bread; Less white bread, brown sugar, rice, watermelon.

http://health.usnews.com/health-news/diet-fitness/diabetes/articles/2010/04/12/eating-the-wrong-kind-of-carbohydrates-increases-heart-disease-risk.html

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Pink Lady...

Stay Together Forever and Ever....

Friday, April 9, 2010

Antique 6: Sothebys Auction 4/8/2010, Hong Kong

A VERY IMPORTANT AND MAGNIFICENT IMPERIAL PEARL COURT NECKLACE (CHAO ZHU, 朝珠)


QING DYNASTY, 18TH CENTURY
8,000,000—12,000,000 HKD
Lot Sold. Hammer Price with Buyer's Premium: 67,860,000 HKD

The Most Beautiful Lake 5: Lake Atitilan


Lake Atitilan, Guatemala

The Most Beautiful Lake 4: The West Lake, 西湖

The Most Beautiful Lake 3: Moraine Lake

Moraine Lake, Banff national park , Canada
near Lake Louis

Thursday, April 8, 2010

The Most Beautiful Lake 2 : Lake of Heaven, 西藏天湖


西藏天湖,滕格漓海(Namtuo Lake)
中國第二大鹹水湖,也是世界上最高的鹹水湖。在北緯 30 ° 30'至30 ° 35',東經 90 ° 16'至91 ° 03'之間。海拔四千七百十八米。超過 70公里,從東到西,北至南30多公里。一個面積超過一千九百二十○平方公里。最深深度33米。

納木錯位於西藏自治區當雄縣和班戈,拉薩以北100公里。納木錯湖融水從念青唐古拉山。納木錯,三聖湖,在西藏,在藏語的意思是天湖。羊年的Sagedawa每逢佳節,很多人來此朝聖。

The Most Beautiful Lake 1: Plitvice Lake


Plitvice Lake in Croatia

Monday, April 5, 2010

The Halo Effect 3: Summary and Review

The term "Halo effect", refers to the phenomenon that  people have tendencies to favor the existing performances of a certain feature, either an item, a company or a person, solely based on the previous high rating of a group or a general impression, rather than individual analysis and personal selection.
Dr. Phil Rosenzweig tried to destroy our usual myth that we usually believe in, such as following golden theories, applying business models and using formula strategies drawn by those once successful companies as our perfect paragons.  He demonstrated the myth on the top 19 companies, including Cisco, ABB, IBM, and Lego with excellent growth and profitability in the 90'. These companies had certain vibrant culture, competitive and acquisition strategies; however, they did not sustain high performances in the next 15 years.

If you wish to follow any successful model from any successful cases or textbook models, Dr. Rosenzweig shattered your dream by collecting many failure data  in history and quoting  Michael Porter's  research on "Segments Specific Effects". Porter states that the Specific Segments, including human resource management, customer and supplier bargaining power, corporate culture, and social responsibilities, only contribute 32% of the performance of a company.  Nearly 70% of the performance effectiveness depends on other factors.

There is no perfect formula for a strategic leadership, which encounters risks and uncertainties in making various decisions. In the year of 2010, while change is the constant, innovation becomes the most essential element in a corporation.

This is an unusual business book on management which evokes reader's critical thinking as we incline to grasp for formulas in the past trying to escape chronicle mistakes, but resulting in fiasco. -----By Mindancer----


Author's Guide for Managers:
http://www.the-halo-effect.com/book/documents/StudyGuideManagers.pdf

Thursday, April 1, 2010

金色筆記 26: 淡水夕陽

愛上夕陽落入水裡的聲音,
輕巧巧的,像是落幕的華爾滋;
只愛淡水的夕陽。

他跟我說,有個不老的傳說;
沿著這一道光,
靜靜的,
與心愛的人手牽著手,
慢慢的走...
走在波光粼粼的水上,
我們,
將會走到美麗的
彼岸。
在那兒,
永生永世的相愛。

于"淡水河邊"