Thursday, September 17, 2009

金色筆記之12: Who cares about your life?

A friend of mine, an anti-marriage activist, would always argue about the value and the drawbacks of marriage, while he argues that companionship would serve the same purpose of marriage but not the faults. In some degree, he is right. Nevertheless, human nature has the tendency to destroy and overthrow something that is not legalized, of which plots the essential reason that marriage system exists in thousand years.

Marriage is not going to give us anything, especially happiness, but an experience of living with somebody we think appropriate to be with. Romantic Love is not required usually; however, a brotherhood love becomes the necessity to sustain the relationship.

While being away from home for 2 weeks, I can sense the wonderfulness to have somebody sharing your life experience with, no matter it is about endless shopping at Prada, Chanel, or panting and climbing stairs of the Arena, or the missing and delay flight from the transfer... However, these things do need a companion, a best friend, or a lover to accomplish.

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